I mean, I don't blame anyone. They want to keep track of the people they talk to regularly or have a lot in common with, but it still makes me feel lousy. :(
UGH, usually I'm the one doing the cutting (...lol...) but a few people that I've thought I was close to over the years have cut me and I always felt kinda ... :/ ... about it.
I never cut because I'm pretty selective about friending in the first place. I mostly friend people if I talk to them often or genuinely enjoy reading my posts. But yes, being cut does make you feel less than special, even if there's legitimate reason.
Invite-only always throws me. As does friends-only, really. Unless you're only posting your most intimate thoughts. But I've seen friends-only journals that are entirely fandom and I go :/.
They make me sad too, but I am a big fat hypocrite about it sometimes too. I'd feel like less of a hypocrite if I had never gone friends only many years ago. :\
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